Is it Love or Is it a Fake Relationship?

The American English Language Institute (AELI) is partnering with Living and Loving Guru to offer a new lifestyle and culture course called “Is it Love or Is it a Fake Relationship?”. This course will be based on a new book My Fiancé: Serial Cheater and Narcissist by J.T. O’Brien.

The course will be told in the first person by Jennifer. Here is an excerpt of her story.

My name is Jennifer and this story is my personal experience living with and being engaged to a serial cheater and narcissist for the past 8 years. This story is real, raw and disturbing. It shocked me to my core when I found out the man I was in love with and my partner, was NOT the man I thought he was. My fiancé, Jean Paul, was living a double life of cheating with many other women in different countries around the world, along with keeping a multitude of secrets and manipulating me the entire time.

Jean Paul was living a double life of cheating with many women around the world, all while weaving an intricate web of deceit and manipulation. He frequently travelled to Cameroon, where he was born, as a professor. I discovered that he was having a sexual relationship with two women there (Florence and Virginie), all while we were living together and engaged to be married. In Maryland, where we lived, he had an ex-wife, Dr. Patty, that he was stopping by to have sex with and a girlfriend, Mary, as well. In Paris, he also had a girlfriend, Corinne. Almost all of them thought they were the only one, including me. I guess this made him feel like a big man. His two sisters in Europe and probably his other family members knew he was a gigalo, but no one warned me about any of this.

Even though this was extremely painful to come to terms with, I decided to write a book chronicling my personal experience, so other women, or men, do NOT fall into the same trap that I did.

This book and course will not only give you an intimate peek into the life of a gigolo, serial cheater and narcissist, it will provide you with valuable information on how to spot and deal with this type of personality as I go into detail about the profile of a serial cheater and narcissist.

I wish someone would have warned me about men like this, said Jennifer. I was naive and had no idea there were people like this in the world. I have no medical degrees, but at this point I believe I should have a PhD in dealing with serial cheaters and narcissists.

I only hope by writing this book I help other people avoid the pain and suffering I experienced.

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